Posted by: sarahjanedoohan | July 4, 2014

Everyday Prayer Life Always Lacking

This past 8 months have been life changing.  Our son Silas began his intensive autism therapy every weekday afternoon (15- 20 hrs). This has been an enormous blessing as he very much needs this help.  But it doesn’t stop there.  When the therapist leaves our home we have to continue to apply what he is learning and incorporate it into our daily routines.  Silas’ ASW are all on holidays this week, so I’m able to write this. There really is no more down time like I had before.  This is partly why I haven’t been able to study like I long to do and take the time to write.   The count down is on till September where our daughter begins Kindergarten.  Hopefully things will be just a bit easier.

Reading has been the main thing I miss since having our children.  You just can’t be wrapped up in a serious book and mind young active children.  I can assure you it doesn’t work.  Spending time in front my computer pondering my thoughts over this blog is a luxury now.

My husband and I have consistently been active in weekly Bible studies and hardly ever miss Sundays.  That’s all fine and good but you need your own personal time with the Lord too.  I struggle with group prayer with adults.  I can certainly pray publicly but find my mind wandering and feel the power is gone from my prayer when I think too hard about what I’m going to say.  I see others tearing up and pouring their hearts out, and I am afraid of putting myself out there like that.  What on earth is wrong with me?  I see people going forward on Sunday mornings and I’ve yet to ever feel compelled to make a public declaration of my commitment levels to Christ.  They strongly encourage this and I think it’s great for people that are able to do that.  I close my eyes to focus and pray in my seat for my own private troubles.  The only people I pray easily in front of are children.  Kids don’t hear me messing up and fumbling my words so I can be at ease.

Recently I heard a sermon by Charles Stanley on prayer.  He used the best person possible for his example. Jesus Himself when he was fully man.  Mark 1:35 and Luke 6:12 speak about how Jesus prayed with His Father in the morning and again at night.  It brings an intimacy between you and the Lord that no one can understand unless they themselves have that closeness with God.  My prayers have always been very informal.  I chuckled when I imagined what Charles Stanley would think if he heard my prayers of late.  But more importantly what must God think of my prayer life?  I don’t pray enough anymore,  stop and start, repeat myself, beg for things I know He cannot give me, and thank Him for all that I have, and yes, fall asleep on Him.  It’s quite a mix in there!  I always feel it’s lacking in all aspects.  Knowing that prayer is the most important part of knowing God, I feel a lot of guilt.  Could that be God Himself prompting my conscience?

What I do know is this.  If it’s bothering me enough to take the time to write about it, than I need to focus more on that part of my life.  Does God miss me?  I know I miss Him a lot, and don’t intend to face the next 8 months struggling to stay afloat mainly on my own.  It’s just not working.  Before kids I used to watch Dr.Phil religiously.  I still like Dr.Phil but time management is crucial.  His famous quotes come back to me often. This particular one, keeps popping up;  “And how’s that working for ya?”  This can be applied to nearly any situation.  So I haven’t been dedicating enough time to praying and probably using our children as an excuse.   I believe I would be an even better mother if my relationship with God was closer again.  At this point in my life all I can make time for is praying rather then getting too in depth with Biblical subjects.  My actual prayer will be for God to show me better ways to manage my time.  Life is just too challenging doing things in my own power.

Going to go pray now…I know God won’t care if it’s in the washroom so I can have privacy.


Posted by: sarahjanedoohan | April 14, 2014

Jesus Christ Was Not Attractive

This being the Holy week leading up to Palm Sunday my thoughts lead me to thinking about what Jesus’ last week would have been like.  Surely He knew that His time was close.  I cannot fathom the enormity of the sacrifice He made so we can all live.

Recently there has been another movie out in theaters portraying Jesus’ life called “Son of God”.  It’s a good thing for Jesus story to be told with all the methods readily available today through the media and technology.  But if they’re going to have men play the role of Jesus,  maybe more realistic choices should be made.   Why wouldn’t they choose a Jewish man rather then a former model?  Maybe my standards are too high.  They strive for accuracy in these type of Biblical films so they need to go all the way.

I’m not going to pick apart all the films produced depicting Jesus’ last days.  It’s unclear whether the Lord approves and blesses all of these attempts.  “The Passion of the Christ” reached many lost souls and had a profound impact on millions.  This is a retelling of the most important story anyone will ever hear in their lifetime.  Best get it right on all accounts.

Jesus appearance as an adult is described in Isaiah 5:2 – He grew up before him like a tender shoot, and like a root out of dry ground.  He had no beauty or majesty to attract us to him, nothing in his appearance that we should desire him.

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Hmm.  I think it’s safe to say this man stands out among others.  As I said former model.  We try and grasp who Jesus was as a man we search for ideas of what others think He may have looked like.  I can assure you if you type Jesus into Google Images you will get a wide range.  Pictures span with Jesus having bright blue eyes, blond hair, pale skin, wearing a crown of thorns smiling giving thumbs up.  All wrong.

Why do people try and pretty everything up?  Think about the money and thought that goes into choosing a book cover.  Maybe readers are unaware that the cover often sells the book.   Endorsers, previews and teasers are what media preys on to peek interest.   Sex sells everything today from cheap chewing gum to expensive cars.  I suspect they knew if they seriously picked a uninteresting boring looking individual for lead role the movie might not sell near as many tickets.

Guess I’m just tired of people unconsciously putting so much value on the physical.  Much of what Jesus taught reinforced the insignificance of physical beauty in the realm of things.  1 Samuel 16:7  But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him.  The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.  Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

I’m so thankful that God sees us very differently then we might try and see Him.   The old verse from Psalm 105:4 ‘Look to the Lord and his strength;  seek his face always.’  The word “face” in this verse actually means presence.  We are to desire His presence.  That is enough for me.


Posted by: sarahjanedoohan | April 2, 2014

Living with Autism

Psalm 127:3  Sons are a heritage from the Lord, children are a reward from him.

This is the first article I’ve written on our sons condition.  Is condition a bad word?  Is learning disability appropriate?  What about special needs?  All of these are terms used to describe autism.  Today was the day I found out I was suppose to be wearing blue to help spread awareness of autism.  April 2nd  is International Autism Awareness Day.  Little did I know as I held my squirming son down for more blood work (anemic) that the nurse also has a child with autism.  I was wearing an old over sized navy T-shirt and black stretch pants.  Apparently navy counted in her books because she was proud of me for wearing blue.  She caught on that I was totally unaware of the significance of today’s date.  Slightly embarrassed.

I had spent more then an hour entertaining Silas in a overcrowded hospital with 30 people ahead of us for blood work.  Everything was fine up until another child had a sticker and our 3 yr old wanted it.   Quickly searching for any piece of paper in my backpack I gave it to him to stop the screaming.   He is obsessed with paper and tares it to smithereens.  If he drops even a tiny scrap of it out of his hands he panics and starts to tantrum.  This happens a lot because his tiny fingers lose their grip on them after being held for hours on end.  When you see how distraught your child becomes you do anything to stop the behavior.  Those are the moments when I feel it’s important to work on coping skills within his therapy sessions.

Last week we visited a children’s hospital in another province notifying us that the autism likely came from both sides of the family and that they’ll never pin point it.  The 3 doctors stuffed us into a tiny room stared at our son and droned on about our family history all the while looking at him for other signs of diseases because his testing came back with strange results.  He was diagnosed last summer with severe autism, though they felt it would improve on the spectrum with early intervention treatment.  We have been proactive in getting him the help and services he needs.  The doctors also had his MRI results in front of them and dismissed the idea that even though he has a spot on his brain, they do not feel it caused autism.  This was excellent news for me as I have lived with the guilt of not taking Silas into the hospital sooner to treat his pneumonia at 2.5 weeks of age.  Suffering from postpartum depression I waited too long to get our son to the hospital and that by the time my mother and mother-in-law forced me to take him in our son nearly died from being deprived of oxygen.   Hearing from the doctor a confirmation, I felt a big sense of relief  knowing that this did not cause the autism.   Autism has gotten in the way of his development.  His vision trouble we have discovered is partly due to his brain not firing the right signals and many motor delays.  His beautiful blue eyes that he has always gotten compliments on are now shifting alignment.  His depth perception is off , but we are waiting a while longer to see if the condition improves before attempting treatment.

Even though I do not know what the future holds for our son academically, I’m learning to leave it with the Lord.  I have worried non stop about these things and have accomplished nothing.  The only thing that is crystal clear in my mind is my incredible love for him.   The fierce protective instincts developed immediately regardless of having PPD.   Whether Silas eventually talks or not I accept him for who he is as a person.  He may have trouble making and keeping friends in the future, but he will always have me.   I’m not embarrassed or ashamed that our son has autism.  This has been a process of understanding what autism is and how it affects our son.  I may never be like that nurse who wanted to shout it from the roof tops and that’s OK.  Wanting our child to have a happy fulfilling life is what we want for him.  Every accomplishment he meets is done by hard work.  Things that people take for granted that their child can do means something very different to a parent with an autistic child.  Instead of focusing on all the things our son can’t do that “normal” children can do, I need to focus on what our son can do now.  He can give big hugs and smiles.  He is new to jumping and hops everywhere.  He just learned to climb up the slide all by himself too.  Silas loves play activity involving water, so bathing is super fun for both of us.  He loves drives in the van, playing in his sandbox, bubbles, and rides in his wagon.  Silas is a very happy little boy and we are so thankful to God for him.

Psalm 139:13-14  For you created my inmost being;  you knit me together in my mother’s womb.  I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;  your works are wonderful, I know that full well.

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Posted by: sarahjanedoohan | April 1, 2014

Blood Red Lunar Eclipses and Solar Eclipses

Genesis 1:14  And God said, “Let there be lights in the expanse of the sky to separate the day from the night, and let them serve as SIGNS to mark seasons and days and years,”

There is little doubt in my mind we are going to be going home sooner then later.   There isn’t a day that passes that I don’t ponder if this will be the day.  Admittedly it’s hard not knowing and I pray often for peace of mind.  Sometimes I plead with the Lord to hurry up.  I look around at this world and am frightened for my young children ages 3 and 5.  I turn 36 next month and have a lot of years ahead of me.  But I’m telling you I see the bigger picture and am anxious for God to right the suffering going on throughout the world.

Luke 21:11  “There will be great earthquakes, famines and pestilences in various places, and fearful events and great SIGNS from heaven.”  Luke 21:25 “There will be SIGNS in the sun, moon and stars.  On the earth, nations will be in anguish and perplexity at the roaring and tossing of the sea.”

Here are just a few reasons why I’m eager for the Lord to return and then I’ll move on.  Knowing the staggering daily death toll of roughly 30,000 children.  These children die of horrible deaths of starvation and diseases.  We serve in an outreach church and is very much mission based.  For this I’m grateful, but I realize this problem will never be solved without the Lord’s divine intervention.  Mans sin of greed and lust for more has caused all of the atrocities of women and children and destruction of God’s creation.   Think about it, everything in this world seems to suffer abuse by the hand of people.  God’s animals, forests, water reservoirs, and the very air we breathe all are hurting.   Increased violence, destruction of family, immorality, pornography, ect. Putting regulations to stop injustices are unending battles that keep turning up.  If you allow yourself to dwell too long on these depressing things that are often out of our hands, you are left with feelings of frustration, hopelessness, sadness, and anger.   So you can understand where I’m coming from.  This world is sick and God needs to fix it.  If I’m totally disgusted by this world, imagine how God the Father feels.

So in 2 weeks time it all begins.   2015 will be a Sabbatical year, and here is the schedule to keep an eye out for.

The Lunar eclipses is as follows:

Passover                                     April 15, 2014

Feast of Tabernacles              October 8, 2014

Passover                                     April 4, 2015

Feast of Tabernacles              September 28, 2015

The two Solar eclipses connected with God’s Holy Days in 2014-2015 happen:

Adar 29/Nisan 1(new year)  March 20, 2015

Feast of Trumpets                     September 13, 2015

God’s Prophet Joel spoke of these prophesies that sure sound like what will be happening in the next 2 years.  This will take place before His 2nd coming.  Will we (His church) even get to see all of these eclipses?

Joel 2:10  Before them the earth shakes, the sky trembles, the sun and moon darkened, and the stars no longer shine.  Joel 2:30-31  I will show wonders in the heavens and on the earth, blood and fire and billows of smoke.  The sun will be turned to darkness and the moon to blood before the coming of the great and dreadful day of the Lord.  Joel 3:14-16  Multitudes, multitudes in the valley of decision!  For the day of the Lord is near in the valley of decision.  The sun and moon will be darkened, and the stars no longer shine.  The Lord will roar from Zion and thunder from Jerusalem;  the earth and the sky will tremble.  But the Lord will be a refuge for his people, a stronghold for the people of Israel.

There are so many other references I couldn’t possibly even get to.  Read Matthew 24 in it’s entirety.  Both sections are titled Signs of the End of the Age and The Day and Hour Unknown.  These are Jesus’ words and only confirm more of these prophesies lining up perfectly like He intended.   Understanding prophesy is a big challenge.  There are a lot of different theories out there.  By no means am I an expert, but I do have a real interest in trying to understand what I can.  One thing is certain, I am in complete awe of Him.  Looking back through history everything that was prophesied in God’s word has accurately happened.   In other words His return is imminent.  It could happen at any point!  Are you ready?   I want to be.

If there is known sin in your life work at correcting it.  What will you be doing when the Lord does return?  Can you imagine facing God if the rapture happened and you were engaging in a sinful act?  Christians sin every single day.  We all struggle with sin and have to persevere every day.  Asking for help with our temptations and weaknesses is part of the Christian walk.  We are not fully sanctified until we have passed from this world to the next.  Surely God would be disappointed in us if in that moment we were doing something sinful.  Denying you struggle with sin is just shear foolishness.  I’m convinced there is no Sinless Perfection unless you’re in a coma, though some actually believe they’ve “arrived”.  Our days are numbered as it is regardless of whether the Lord returns in our lifetime or not.  Our allotted time is a speck of sand in a desert.  Eternity is forever.  Don’t waste a moment because every day is a gift from above.  Be thankful and use your time wisely.  I don’t want an eternity of regrets of what I could have done with my time.


Posted by: sarahjanedoohan | March 30, 2014

Say Something (Christian Version)

This young group of people sing straight from the heart.  Been feeling like this for a while now.  This song spoke to me through them.  Grateful I stumbled upon them.


Posted by: sarahjanedoohan | January 30, 2014

Gossip Happens

2 Thessalonians 3:11  We hear that some among you are idle.  They are not busy;  they are busybodies.

Ever hear this “Idle hands are the Devil’s workshop (tools)”.   There is a reason we all need to stay out of each others personal affairs.  We’ve heard the dramatic statistics showing that women talk far more then men do in a run of a day.  We communicate very differently and have unique needs.  A lot of women dread having a female boss for the very reason alone that they are held to a higher standard.  Most of us are no strangers to gossip.  If you’re female you know all too well the reality of how quickly any social atmosphere (office, work, community, church, school etc) can become awkward.  Normally we are the last to know when we are spoken about in a negative light which can be a blessing.  Ignorance is bliss right?

But what happens when you know without a doubt that someone you have put your faith and trust in has betrayed confidences?  How do we react?  This happened to me though I’d rather not get into specific details.  I was open and made the decision to share parts of my life that were better left private.  This is the risk some of us take by confiding in others about anything personal.  Too many Bible verses come to mind about how God perceives gossips.  The Lord sees the seriousness and ripple effects of these actions.  James dedicates an entire chapter (3) to the subject called “Taming The Tongue”, and Solomon had plenty to say in Proverbs.

Proverbs 20:19  A gossip betrays a confidence;  so avoid a man who talks too much.

I’m convinced that most times people just don’t care unless they get caught at it.  Nearly everyone is guilty of gossip at some point.  The age old questions we need to ask ourselves before sending gossipy emails or whispers behind someones backs is –  “Is it kind?  Is it true?  Is it necessary?”.  These are the moments where God watches how we respond.  

John Maxwell says in a beautiful quote “Life is 10% of what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it.”

As for myself when it comes to gossip it can be a rather broad term.  Is it considered gossip if it’s in the news?  What about talk radio?  I’ve listened to more rants on talk radio and tire of it quickly.  There are several situations when it is appropriate to weigh in on subjects.  But when it comes to people we have to tread more carefully.  Odds are we wouldn’t say something negative about a person if they were in hearing distance.  There is gossip in the sense of discussing other peoples lives and the choices they make, and then there is a very different kind.  Malicious gossip.  The sole purpose is to hurt the reputation of the other person.

1 Timothy 5:13  Besides, they get into the habit of being idle and going about from house to house.  And not only do they become idlers, but also gossips and busybodies, saying things they ought not to.

We take big and small risks each day and opening up to others is not always easy.  It is a risk and something that shouldn’t be done lightly.   Maybe less I say in life the better it would be, though that would be a stretch for me!  I can’t change who I am, because at the core I love people.  I want the best for them and everyone else in my life.

Posted by: sarahjanedoohan | January 20, 2014

Layman’s Ten Commandments


Layman’s Ten Commandments

Someone has written these beautiful words for us to read.

1.  Prayer is not a “spare wheel” that you pull out when in trouble, but it is a “steering wheel” that directs the right path throughout.

2.  Why is a car’s windshield so large and the rear view

mirror so small?

 Because our past is not as important as our future.

So, look ahead and move on.

3.  Friendship is like a book.

It takes a short time to burn,

but it takes years to write.

4.  All things in life are temporary. If it’s going well, enjoy it; that

won’t last long.

If it’s going badly, don’t worry; that won’t last long either.

5.   Old friends are gold!

New friends are diamonds!

If you get a diamond, don’t

forget the gold!

Because to hold a diamond, you always need a base of gold!

6.  Often when we lose hope and think this is the end, God

smiles from above and says, “Relax, it’s just a bend, not the end!”

7.  When God solves your problems, you have faith in His abilities; when God

doesn’t solve your problems, He has faith in your abilities.

8.  A blind person asked St. Anthony, “Can there be anything worse than losing eye sight?”

He replied, “Yes, losing your vision!”

9.  When you pray for others, God listens to you and blesses them; sometime when you are safe and happy, remember that someone has prayed for you.

10.  Worrying does not take away tomorrow’s troubles;

it takes away today’s peace.

Posted by: sarahjanedoohan | January 14, 2014

Bruce Van Natta Saved by Angels

This short 6 minute video is the account of Bruce Van Natta’s life being spared by 2 of God’s ministering angels.  Bruce describes what he felt and saw in these crucial moments between life and death.  Crushed by a 10,000 lbs of truck this man survives and healed when by all medical standpoints never could have survived.  Click on link below.

Bruce Van Natta Saved by Angels

Posted by: sarahjanedoohan | January 2, 2014

New Year Can be as Simple as Pressing Restart

What better time than New Years is there to make changes in your life.  Do you bother with New Year resolutions?  What things does God have in store for 2014?  Could this be the year that you possibly refocus your life goals, rejuvenate your marriage, restart your career, refresh your exercise regimen, or simply become more organized.  Whatever your thoughts may be on the subject, most people want second chances at things they feel they have failed at.

While conducting interviews the employer often asks one very intrusive question that stumps many – “Please tell me something that you don’t like about yourself. ”   Long pauses generally take place as people are afraid to be honest.  Fearful of revealing something negative about themselves as it could make or break them with this crucial answer.  Not many answer with full disclosure on these “negative” traits such as procrastination, tardiness, disorganized, enjoy gossip, addicted to Facebook,  need afternoon naps, telling tales, and a klepto on the weekends.  If people told the honest truth the interview would come to a screeching stop!

See these are personal negative things that everyday people battle both Christian and non Christian.  Things that no one would broadcasts because of the shame that usually accompanies it.  Everyone has things they need to work on, some more then others.  It’s difficult to watch peoples life literally falling apart right in front of us.  We have the answers and advice for them if they would only take it.  Better to look in the mirror first and fix our own glaring problems before we can truly help anyone else.

Just finished reading this article on 30 things you can do to improve your life.  As I read on it was apparent how selfishly slanted everything was.  This list truly seemed unattainable to meet.  To me everything on the list required major focus on themselves, some luck thrown in there to become a better person.  How can the average Joe ever hope to achieve a great life without the Lord taking the lead role?  I got discouraged half way through the list as I realized I am very lacking in a number of areas.  I finished the list and felt completely inadequate with the belief I could manage this on my own.  I’m sorry but I’m so tired of hearing “Believe in yourself”.  No thanks, that usually never works out.

Matthew 7:7-8  “Ask and it will be given to you;  seek and you will find;  knock and the door will be opened to you.  For everyone who asks receives;  he who seeks finds;  and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.”

Be inspired by shifting your energies on complete dependency on Jesus Christ alone.   If you want to get your life back on track look up.  Let Him become your go to confidant, mentor, champion, father and friend.   You can safely tell Jesus where your weaknesses lie.  Ask the Lord for forgiveness where needed, known and unknown sins.  Anything and everything is forgivable with a sincere heart.  When you are praying/talking to Jesus be specific in your requests for what you need most.  Healing, patients, direction, drive, peace, self control, knowledge, protection, among many others – these are not selfish requests.  All of these attributes are strengths that may not come naturally to us and we need only ask for them.

Think back to when Solomon asked the Lord in his prayer for wisdom alone when he could have asked for so much more.  God gave him not only great wisdom but riches beyond anything we could imagine and a longevity.  Kings 3:7-15

I’m not ashamed of admitting that I’ve gone to the Lord many times asking for knowledge and understanding.  My school years were full of failures due to a learning disability.  To this day at age 35 I’m still have the recurring dream of writing test and not knowing any of the answers.  I stare down at the questions and start thinking hoping for divine intervention.  I even get excited thinking I might pass the test. My hopes are crashed again and again when the teacher’s face has the usual frown hands back the graded failed test.  Bright red X’s cover nearly all my work as I am washed with a familiar feeling of disappointing mingled with hopelessness.

My speeches, projects, book reports, essays, years of tutors, summer school sessions made it possibly for me not to fail grade school and graduate with my class in 1996.  I got by with the skin of my teeth by nothing less then hard work all the way.  Math was my weakest subject that held me back from achieving the marks for university.  Teachers genuinely wanted me to succeed and gave me great advice along the way.  Many teachers wanted to give me a passing grade for my personality alone…oh if life were like that.

James 1:5  If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him.

I’m happy to report that my Father did answer my prayer requests for knowledge.  It’s safe to say I’ll never be a math teacher, but God has opened my eyes to so many more important things in life.   He has shown me that I’m bright in other areas and I know longer use the internal dialog calling myself stupid and dumb.  I wouldn’t call anyone else these names, but that is how I saw myself for years.

2014 Lord willing will be a good year for you too.  May the Lord bless you personally along your journey with Him.



Posted by: sarahjanedoohan | November 1, 2013

Perfectly Flawed

Before I write this article I will specify that this is my own personal blog and not publicly associated with our Facebook account.   There is a price to calling yourself a Christian and many in this world today call themselves this, but have no concept of what it actually is.  I fully admit to having many flaws that I need to work on.  The list of daily struggles (sins) is long and one day I will not have to deal with these imperfections.  But I’m all too human with real feelings.

All I know is that when life gets too much I start to look up.   I catch myself far too often asking God when He is coming back?   It’s the not knowing that unsettles me the most.  I do take real comfort believing that everything is going to be restored and made the way it should be (Rev 21:5).  Still knowing that I wonder how much longer will this world carry on the way it is?  We are bombarded by disturbing headlines all the time.

My own struggles with inadequacy stretch to all aspects of my life now.  Who am I?  First and foremost I am a child of God.   No one can take that from me. Ultimately God knows my heart, and I answer to Him alone.  After that I am a wife and mother.  Being a natural born people pleaser I want everyone to be happy with me.  This has brought me nothing but troubles.  I have the ability to make some people very happy and of course can upset some by not complying.

Paul writes about this in his letter to the Corinthian church.  1 Cor 9:22 To the weak I became weak, to win the weak.  I have become all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save one.

Surely Paul struggled with this.  He never married and had children as his life was solely dedicated to doing God’s will.  Paul had his own battles and stresses that nearly all of us would have crumbled under if put in his position. That is why of course God did not burden him with more responsibility such as a family.  A lot of women in today’s day and age are bothered by Paul’s passage touching on husbands and wives roles in such plain English (Ephesians 5:22-33). That portion of scripture often surfaces in Bible studies and can be rather amusing to see play out between couples.  What everyone needs reminding about is even though he wrote most of the new testament it was all inspired by God (2 Timothy 3:16).

Everyone needs to be working on improving some aspect of their lives.  Mine is a journey that is never going to let up until my time is up.  Along life’s way I’m going to continue to make mistakes just like everyone else.  Anyone who expects me to be perfect will be sadly disappointed.  I use to expect perfection in myself and it gave me only dissatisfaction and led to a frustrated mindset.  Instead I ask for forgiveness when needed and rely solely on the Lord for direction and help.

My focus in life surrounds our two children and serving the Lord with the time He allows us.  Our church family plays a big role in our family life.  They have given us opportunities to serve Him over the years in capacities we never could have had on our own.

God loves me even though I’m not perfect and he loves me even with my flaws.  This is what I now believe deep within my heart of my personal savior.  I’m done people pleasing and only have one goal in mind.

Joshua 24:15b “But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”

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